Respect is an essential ingredient in healthy organisations. It also plays a key role in effective thought leadership and external influencing. But when I reflect on how I lead, I rarely do anything with the sole purpose of gaining respect.
Being asked to respond to this question gave me the opportunity to ask staff at Villiers Park Educational Trust, the national social mobility charity I am proud to lead, what I do that means that they respect me. I also reach out to past colleagues at the Office for Students (the HE regulator) as well as some of the key stakeholders I have worked with. Being open and curious to the responses has given me new insights into how I am perceived.
Every person spoke about three things: I genuinely care about organisational purpose; I want everyone to share their ideas and opinions and wisdoms; and then I make clear, imperfect decisions.
I have chosen a career in social justice – or, more to the point, I have been called to it. Those who spend even small amounts of time with me know how driven I am to ensure that everyone has the opportunity to thrive. Achieving this means systemic change alongside interventions at the individual level. Clarity of, and dedication to, purpose gains respect.
I know that we won’t solve the most challenging of problems unless we focus on finding the best solution, which doesn’t have to be (and often isn’t) my solution. I need every member of staff and every stakeholder to share their wealth of experience and their unique understanding of how the world works. People thrive when they are given space to be curious, creative and tenacious, and when their experiences, ideas and opinions are recognised as valuable contributions to achieving positive change. This environment is not something that can be turned on and off. We need to hold these spaces all the time, in all our interactions, not just during workshops! Leaders are respected for holding those spaces.
Human beings are complicated and do unexpected things. We live in complex social structures and have to navigate faulty systems to move forward. Therefore it isn’t possible to make perfect decisions with guaranteed outcomes and no unintended consequences. In that context my role as a leader is to move us forward, in line with our values and towards our purpose. So I make decisions. I explain them and I almost always stick to them. Sometimes I get it wrong, and I’m honest about this and work to make amends. You earn respect by owning your responsibility and your fallibility.
Honestly, I think leadership is all about really showing up, even when it’s hard. And leadership also means making it safe for everyone else to do the same.
Rae Tooth is chief executive of Villiers Park Educational Trust, a national social mobility charity
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